Why we resist to achieve goals
May 4, 2010 
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I am very much looking forward to tonights free tele class “Releasing resistance to healing and achieving goals”.
If you haven’t signed up yet, please do so in the box on the right, so that the call in number can be emailed to you in time.
Why is this topic so important?
Because if we didn’t have resistance to achieving goals, we would have reached them by now.
If we weren’t hesitant about asking for perfect health, the perfect body, the unlimited income, we would have achieved our goals and dreams and our life would be very different.
Think about it:
When you look at your life, do you see areas where you have been very successful against all odds?
Do you see how you just had a goal or dream and made it happen?
Maybe it was a job, maybe a relationship, maybe a trip you always wanted to take. When you look at your life, you will see the areas where you just “had what it took” to make it happen. Why were you able to reach your dreams? Where did you get the power and knowledge from? How come you knew before you began that you would one day be there?
And now take a look at the areas where you didn’t succeed. What makes them different?
Is the goal too big to reach? Then why not make it smaller so that you can be successful, and move on from there?
You think you have no money?
Then why not put your mind to creating the income you need (even if that requires unusual means) so that you can reach your goal?
You think people would feel confirmed in their unfairness and misbehavior if you forgave them and let go?
Then just don’t tell them that you’re over it, for god’s sake! Claim your life no matter what they think!
How about a fear of losing compassion and attention?
Well, wouldn’t it be nicer to not need compassion anymore and create even leveled relationships instead? What is holding you back?
Do you feel that as soon as you relax, an old problem might come back , and the tension keeps you safe?
Well, the reality is that your tension is costing you energy not giving it. If you are able to keep yourself safe with a lack of energy, then you are certainly even better able to keep yourself safe when you have your power back.
How about not feeling safe in a healthy and gorgeous body?
That needs to be tapped on immediately, as the healthier and happier you are with your body, the more you are prone of taking care of yourself.
Do you see how we can easily find good reasons and ways to help you release the resistance to healing and reaching your goals.
But as you know by now from studying EFT and this blog, our resistance is often almost hardwired into our energy system, and the blocks that are caused by past trauma and negative writing on our walls need to be released before we can truly open up and move forward.
This is what tonight’s tele class is all about: Creating a vision for your goal, tapping into the resistance and releasing it with EFT.
It will be fun, and I truly hope you will join us!
And I will also make a special announcement at the end of the class, so if you can’t stay till the end, make sure you download your recording before Friday, May 7th.
Until Tonight!
hugs
Ingrid
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hi Ingrid!
Would love to listen to your recording.
Hi Miguel,
I’ll send it to you. Great to hear from you. Let’s reconnect!
Love
Ingrid
Hello,
I would like to hear it too.
Ingrid, when I pressed 4* I was disconnected instead of muted – so I’ll have to listen to the replay to finish the tapping on the “sadness”.
Tonight’s call did give me some things to think about and work on. I do have a very deep fear and resistance to healing – that it is not safe (I have been on disability for many years) but at least you gave me some wording and areas to explore and tap on. Thanks for the free call. Due to my very limited income I have not been able to afford working with a professional – which is why I am so very greatful when free calls are available so I can uncover another layer. And thank you for all of the work that you do with the veterans, I wish Gary Craig’s work could be practiced in all of the military hospitals. Best regards,
Hi Alinda,
I’ll send it to you! Please email me your email adress.
Hi Cathleen, thank you for your feedback and I am sorry you got disconnected from the call. I will send you the recording. Please contact me with any questions you may have!
I was not able to be on the call, could you also send me a replay of the call.
Yes, I will do that.
Hi Ingrid,
I just wanted to thank you so much for the teleconference last night. It definitely was enlightening and opened a new understanding to at least one of my “resistance points”!! Now I have something to work with and I thank you very much for that gift.
All my best, Renee
Thanks Renee! It was so great to hear you yesterday!
Love
Ingrid
Hi, Ingrid:
I would also like the replay of the call–I was disconnected at
8:50 p.m. when a friend rang through. Also, although you told us how to mute ourselves, I did not get how to unmute ourselves after muting. The call brought up a few things for me. First, around my weight issue, there was a fear of being invisible. Even though I do not like people staring at me because I am obese, it is better than no attention at all which is what I felt growing up, when my increasing weight at least led to me being on the receiving end of some nasty comments, instead of having everything I was (or did) being taken for granted. After the call for some reason, I started thinking about my finances (or lack of). My difficulty is trying to focus on a positive outcome, when on a day-to-day basis I have to juggle my budget.
How do I get past that, since I feel it is a resistance of some kind.
Thanks so much for doing this teleclass!
Sharon
Ingrid,
I am so happy that I attended your Tele-class last night. I cannot quite put into words how it has sparked change in me already… but it has. The way I feel in control of my thoughts, actions and my LIFE in general is changing as we speak… I feel completely empowered.
In fact, after our session I felt so compelled and motivated to start creating the life I want – that I couldn’t go to sleep! I started doing all these things that I put off for no reason, for a very long time.
I know that every single thing that is in my life is in there because I put it there. I am who I am because I have CHOSEN to be.
This is a simple concept essentially, and I have no idea why I have gotten so far away from it. If we look at something and think it is silly … we have CHOSEN to feel that way. “If you change the way you look at things… the things you look at change”
THANK YOU – THANK YOU – THANK YOU INGRID!!
I hope there are more opportunities like this in the future!!!
Big HUG ~Lucee
(could you also send me the recording??!) Thanks in advance!!
hi, could you send me the recording also? thanks
Will do
Is this recording still available and how does one access and save the recordings? Thank you